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1.
Are you sexually experienced?
I started my sex life between the ages of 14 and 20 (15)
I began having sex between the ages of 21 and 25 (5)
I am still a virgin (0)
I had sex for the first time after the age of 25 (-20)
I had sex before the age of fourteen (-20)
2.
Do you know how to bring yourself to orgasm?
Yes, but I don't do it very often (-10)
No, I have never masturbated (-20)
Yes, and I enjoy regular masturbation (10)
3.
Are your sexual boundaries consistent?
Always. I know myself and keep to my rules (15)
I keep to my rules most of the time. (-15)
I'm a free spirit and go with what feels right (-25)
4.
Are you up to date with your reproductive health check-ups?
Yes, I see my Gynecologist at least annually and feel comfortable
talking to her about anything (20)
I go regularly, but I'm a bit shy about asking a lot of
questions (5)
I go to the gyn in a sporadic way, usually when I have a
yeast infection I rarely go (-15)
I never see a gynecologist (-20)
5. Do you know how to make sexual requests?
I'm totally shy when it comes to talking about sex with
a man (-20)
I can talk about some things but not others (-10)
I'm pretty open and comfortable talking about my needs (15)
I think all I talk about is sex with a man (-5)
6.
Do you understand male physiology?
Lord no! That's his department, isn't it? (-20)
I've got the basics down and know how to please a man (10)
I've bought a book on the subject, so I feel pretty confident
(15)
7.
Do you know how to ask men about what they like?
Yikes. No Way. I'm afraid he'll think I know too much (-15)
I'm practicing this and getting better (5)
I love to ask men how I can make the experience better for
them (15)
8.
Do you practice safer sex?
I always ask about an AIDS test, always use a condom and
never have unprotected oral sex (25)
I use a condom but do engage in unprotected oral sex (-10)
I use a condom most of the time (-20)
I sometimes use a condom (-30)
I rarely use a condom because I don't think I'm at risk
(-50)
9.
Do you know how to say no to sex?
I mostly use body language, but usually get my message across
(-20)
I am sometimes verbally rude (-15)
I sometimes have sex with people I don't want to because
it's easier than saying no (-25)
I pay attention to my needs and use kindness and honesty
to set my boundaries. I never do anything I don't want to
do. (20)
10.
Do you know when to say yes to sex?
My intuition has been pretty good at gauging the trustworthiness
of a man. (10)
I'm bad at trusting men, so I like to talk about all the
trust issues before having sex. (15)
I'm hit and miss. Too many times, I trust the wrong person.
(-10)
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